How then to arrange our love for Jehovah God and Jesus and our fellows and even our enemies so that our love would be properly tuned?
That's a fair question from a JW point of view. I'd like to answer it. As in life, work, marriage-family, and many other things, if a person does not have their priorities straight, they quickly become disoriented and experience system failures.
So, first of all Jesus is the boss:
Col 1:18 says, “that in all things he [Jesus] might have the preeminence.
Phil. 2-9-11 Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow...For it pleased the Father that in him should all fulness dwell.
If a person doesn't know who their boss, spouse or landlord is, they will experience a system failure.

Jesus is the reason we are here. Until WT, gets their priorities straight, starting with Who's The Boss, every other "correction" will be of zero eternal value.